Signs of trouble in your marriage

Read on to find whether your relationship is headed towards divorce.

Marriages are made in heaven! It might be a little hard to believe this statement if you feel like your marriage is on the verge of falling apart. What is not so emotionally healthy is if you are in bad marriage but are not only clinging to each other because of habit and familiarity.

Here are some signs you should look out for which meant that your marriage is going down and is headed towards divorce.

BOYCOTT THE FAMILY:

One sure signs is when you stop going to the family get together. In fact, you and your partner are never seen together. You barely go out, and are always marketing an excuse for other parson’s absence. The scary part is you don’t even miss the person and it is almost a norm for the two of you not to be seen together. It is a sure sign that your marriage is doomed.

YOU DON’T CARE:

At the beginning of your relationship, you did whatever it took to make him or her happy. Now you don’t even make the slightest effort to try and make things work. When you stop caring about were your partner is, how his or her day was, you don’t do anything remotely romantic or compassionate and have basically lost all interest in your partner or their well-being, it only means that the love is dying, and if you don’t do anything about it, so will your marriage.

THE SEX FACTOR:

This is the touchy subject but is often the thing that stops when a marriage is on the rocks. If your relationship was once sizzling with sexuality now seems like the inside of a cold refrigerator, it’s time to wake up and smell the coffee. Sex is not only thing in life, but when two people who are married find it hard to get physically intimate, something is wrong for sure.

NO TIME:

If you spending all you are free time with your friends or would rather spend time working then going back home, you or on you way to divorce. If it is impossible for you and your partner to stand each other’s company, things are bound get nasty. This can take the form of going out with friends exclusively, or even resorting to diversions of drugs and alcohol.

ON YOUR OWN:

When a couple starts of function independently of each other and live in the house but lead completely separate lives, in many way the divorce has already happened. From owning a home together and sharing bills, if you suddenly find yourselves having car, bank accounts, investment etc. means you have on some level, already separated.

CAN’T GO HOME:

Has stepping through your front door become an act of labour instead of pleasure? You may find yourself inventing reasons to go home, such as abnormally long happy hour with your mates.

ALWAYS FIGHTIHG:

If you and your partner have reached a point in life where it is impossible for you to talk without arguing or fighting things are already ugly and beyond repair. Even if you try to talk you never seem to reach common ground and each fight gets worse with time. If you have gone from being nasty and abusive towards each other it is time to move on.

THE THIRD PARTY:

If all above apply to your relationship, the final nail in the coffin is when one of you starts to have an affair. If your marriage is already in trouble, the affair is bound to end it. From this point it will be difficult to go back because infidelity is not something that is easy to forgive or forget.

A marriage is not fun and games; it takes a certain level of maturity and understanding for two people to make a marriage work. Your happiness is what counts most, so and try to work things out only opt for divorce if nothing else work.